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Anonymous Dude's avatar

I had this too. I finally added other identities like relationships and hobbies, especially after a job problem in my early thirties. As you discovered, it's not wise to put all your eggs in one basket. Diversification's not just for investments.

FWIW, I've read a big problem men have is our entire identities tend to get tied to our work, so if we get demoted or fired we have identity crises. So (despite not being a man) you may be fortunate in confronting this now.

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Bella Aase's avatar

“Devestatingly average” I love that. Thank you for sharing this post and your perspective. 🩵

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